16 just held such better days....

And here we go...this would be the emotional chaotic part of my life. I'm 20 years old and I'm supposed to be building a bright and wonderful future for myself. When I find the only thing I'm building is resentment and bitterness. This resentment and bitterness is not just carried through with people I work with or want to run over when I'm having a road rage episode...but its mostly veered towards the people closest to me. I can hear myself being rude and short with my family and my friends. I've tryed so hard and so long to stop doing this but its like a bad habit. I get so pissed at the smallest things and I think I have came to a simple conclusion of why. "The world was a gift to us, and we broke it, and part of the deal is that if we want things right, we have to fix it ourselves but we can't. We try but we can't." Have you ever just wanted to scream because everything in your life is so fucked up and it seems like no matter how hard you try things always seem to get worse. You find a person you want to spend the rest of your life with and then they join the military or cheat on you and leave you all by yourself. It hurts and it sucks and to many times have I seen the world turn its back on me. Now its my turn to turn my back on the world...if I want or need something I automatically know that I have to work my ass for it and then it will eventually get messed up anyway. I used to be nice...I really did but then I grew up and realized there is nothing I can do that makes things right or easy. I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or make it seem as though my life is the worst one out there...I'm coming face to face with reality that fairy tales and those stories you read about romance aren't true in my world. And as far as the military is concerned....it seems like army guys, navy guys..what have you.. care more about their jobs than any relationship they're in. That may be what they signed up for but last time I checked I didn't sign any papers to get my heart ripped out of my chest. I realize their job is main priority and training is difficult on some days, easier on the others, and being away from home can't be easy. I realize all of this and I cope and sympathize. But I don't think that they realize how hard it is dropping them off at the airport only to know that you have to wait 6 lonely months at home alone going to work and school , dealing with stupid shit and all the while, doing it without him.....But I think he takes for granted what and who he has waiting for him back at home. To add to all of this...he is coming home but for a short amount of time and then he is gone for another 6 months....I dont know what to do because I have a guy that I loved for 3 and half years of my life that really isnt much part of my life anymore because of the military and I have a guy that I'm starting to care about just as much (that mind you still lives 2 hours away from me) and they are both going to be home at the same time. Tell me that isnt some shit to deal with.